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Fine Was Never the Goal: Why Settling Keeps You Stuck

Fine Was Never the Goal: Why Settling Keeps You StuckBy: Cheryl Miller Published on: 08/28/2025

Tired of saying ‘I’m fine’? Learn why fine keeps you shrinking and the small rebellions that help women 45+ reclaim joy and confidence.

Identity ReclamationEmotional WellnessConfidence RecoveryPersonal GrowthUnapologetic Living
Fine Was Never the Goal: Why Settling Keeps You Stuck

Forgotten what joy feels like? If the mirror feels like a stranger, this is your first micro rebellion back to YOU.

Forgotten what joy feels like? If the mirror feels like a stranger, this is your first micro rebellion back to YOU.By: Cheryl Miller Published on: 07/23/2025

If you look in the mirror and don’t recognize the woman staring back, this blog is your first step back to you.

Identity ReclamationMidlife EmpowermentConfidence Recovery
Forgotten what joy feels like? If the mirror feels like a stranger, this is your first micro rebellion back to YOU.